A Videographer's Guide to Posing as a Couple
Have you been here before?
You are about to get a couples photography or videography session, all of the sudden you feel nervous.
You may be thinking, “What do I do with my hands?!”
“How should I pose?”
In one word, it can get awkward. Especially since you are expected to display your affection publicly and in front of a stranger and a camera. If you aren’t natural in front of the camera you may feel disappointed with the results.
My job as a filmmaker is to avoid that scenario at all costs. My main goal is to make you feel more comfortable on camera, get stunning results, and best of all, have fun!
The benefits of engagement or wedding video is numerous. I mean hey you are probably going to want to remember that moment in your life right? So, I am giving you tips to posing as a couple, so you can avoid the awkward moments.
1. Be Prepared
Before the session, it is important to be prepared. Most photographers or videographers will send you a guide or an email with tips on what to where, what to bring, and location.
If you are shooting at a studio or an indoor location, you can likely change into different outfits.
I also encourage couples to use props. Like, picnic baskets, champagne, balloons, flowers, bikes, and so one. This can help you feel more at ease, and it gives you something to do that feels natural!
Regarding locations, you can find great ones from a simple google search, but if there is a place that is special to you both, choose that!
2. Take Cues
This may seem opposite to the idea of candid shots and natural-looking photos, but let me tell you a secret. After having filmed multiple couples, brands, and stock footage over the year, I can tell you that natural shots are thought of in advanced and posed. From the angles to the location, it is all set up to get the best shot.
Listen to the photographer or videographer for cues on where to place your hands, how to stand, where to stand, where to look, what expression to have on your face, and more!
3. Use An Activity
An activity breaks the ice instantly, takes your focus off any awkwardness you and your partner may be feeling, and sets the scene for a memorable shoot.
Activities can include a variety of things like: horseback-riding, flea markets, or sitting at a cafe. If thinking of an activity is difficult having a bunch of flowers to hold always help. You can focus on posing them in ways that look natural, and making sure that they connect emotionally with lots of laughter and fun moments, like running and jumping, that don’t require props or any special preparation.
In the comments, tell me if you have ever had couples video or photos taken?
